Here is what Gweneth  said that got all sort of military people up in arms including Cindy McCain. "You come across (online comments) about yourself and about your friends, and it's a very dehumanizing thing," Paltrow said, according to the interview. "It's almost like how, in war, you go through this bloody, dehumanizing thing, and then something is defined out of it. My hope is, as we get out of it, we'll reach the next level of conscience. Click here for the full story and reaction from many